Hey Lisa, Did you read my mammoth posts (?).. I thought of you last night. After just 3 months together, my ex feels like, how can he undo this? He's upset me so much, "stuff has happened", he's in too deep, he didnt plan it or go looking, but now thats its happened, he doesnt know how to reverse it.. made me think of your H.. that must be massively true after a year+?
I thikn your only hope is if they break up, right? And I thought it was positive that he whinged a little about his holiday and said it was "nothing special".. bt then, poor woman hey?? What the hell is he doing with her if thats how he feels, it cant be a fulfilling R. I dont get these WAS. I really dont.
Well done on the multiple date scenarios. Shame about CEO and mystery 2/3 week woman.
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Sunshine- I hope your lack of second response doesn't mean you think I'm a floozy after all!
Ali- yes, I did read your posts but wasn't sure what to post/ what you wanted to hear. My H said the same things about being confused and still loving me 6 months ago but I have no idea what he thinks now and generally am not spending much time considering it....you're right that there can be no movement until the R with the aubergine finishes. Also, I wouldn't read too much into his comment about their holiday. No doubt he told her that our M was 'nothing special' too; just stuff they say.
I've just been out for lunch with man #1- we'll call him the lawyer. He was nice, paid for lunch, intelligent, but had very hairy arms and didn't elicit any kind of spark. We talked about history, politics and pirates and he was pretty funny. I'm a bit tipsy now- three hours to sober up before man #2, the banker.
My CEO looks good enough to eat today. He is SO HOT. Let's hope I sober up soon because otherwise I might just end up telling him that We're going out to his club tomorrow afternoon (with my old boss there aswell). Here's a link-
That looks like a really interesting place. Looking over the menu made my mouth water. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time! Don't get too tipsy or words you hadn't meant to say might come tripping off your tongue!
What to wear???? I'm thinking all black. Tall boots, short skirt, black stockings, and either a high necked tight sweater or, conversely, somethat that shows the girls off a bit!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Loose is better than being "stiff" and a cold hearted bitch, right? I dont mind if you are loose, somehow I have the feeling you are completely the opposite though (not stiff and cold hearted bitch either) I missed the answer My Lady... Beg for your pardon...
Clothes? Hmmm, which floor are you going to to HIS club? LOL!!!
Lawyers and Bankers... Not my type but what can I say other than: stick to the CEO and tell him he is HOT!!! Tell him a friend of yours think so...(actually half a dozen of your friends think so) xxx K
Mish- I should look at the menu- I haven't yet. I like the idea of the black boots, maybe with a knee-length skirt and lacey cardigan or something? High-necks make the melons looks like pumpkins so I might have to steer slear of that effect
Sunshine- loose is definitely better than stiff, but yes, you're right- I'm very particular about who receives the gift of me. If it was warmer and we were going to the rooftop maybe CEO would get the gift but it's going to be Arctic here tomorrow apparently. His loss
If we have drinks tomorrow I may well tell him that my super-hot friend thinks he is likewise hot. I'm sure he'll be in Athens by nightfall!
Lisa! I hope you have fun tonight and glad lunch today went well. Remember there is always waxing... you could sneek up on him in the dark and wax that hair right off. I'm sure he wouldn't notice
I've got to say, you are sounding great! And I am jealous of all of those guys! Though, I came to work in short sleeves today, it is bright and sunny. It's supposed to be 81 (27 C). Nights are cool, though, about 10C (50F) so you can still bring socks!
