Ok - so maybe things aren't going so well.

Hard to hold back feelings about W and OM breaking up the family - and getting angry with her about it - I continue to do the same thing.

vs. DBing and being happy with your life.

I do not know how to juggle them and separate them either.

But at this point in my legal separation - we live apart and anthing I say about us or her BF - just gets her angry and doesn't call for days.

Rock and a hard place.

Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

http://tinyurl.com/Original-thread
http://tinyurl.com/Second-thread
http://tinyurl.com/Third-thread