Kakatal - I am amazed at how well your are getting along with your W who is divorcing you for another man.

My W is doing the same thing to me - and I mostly react with anger, clinginess, and dwell on my own loneliness.

I just do not know how so many people are so easily able to adjust and accept the new reality.

I am trying to GAL and DBing... but deep down I am resentful and lonely. I am trying to accept things and get along with my WAW for the sake of our daughter, but I do not find that easy to do - it's like giving her the "ok" to her choices.

I know I have no chance even years from now if I cannot get back to being friends with her.

So my hats offf to you - you are doing a great job DBing.


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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