Kakatal - I am amazed at how well your are getting along with your W who is divorcing you for another man.
My W is doing the same thing to me - and I mostly react with anger, clinginess, and dwell on my own loneliness.
I just do not know how so many people are so easily able to adjust and accept the new reality.
I am trying to GAL and DBing... but deep down I am resentful and lonely. I am trying to accept things and get along with my WAW for the sake of our daughter, but I do not find that easy to do - it's like giving her the "ok" to her choices.
I know I have no chance even years from now if I cannot get back to being friends with her.
So my hats offf to you - you are doing a great job DBing.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day