It's a Marathon, Not a Sprint, to Happy...

[BobbiJo]

What can I say, I am a bit of a 'planner', which is why limbo sucks so much. H hasn't even given a definitive answer if he will go to my christmas party in 3 weeks....

No I won't try to molest him. Last night I actually thought "what the hell" and I said,

"So is the lower region permanently off limits or what?" (the kids were in the room I had to be creative)

H says, "Why?" (I guess that is better than--YES it is off limits!?)

I say, "Because I WANT it...." in a flirty voice

H laughed.

Not the fetal position, but not "come hither", either....

[smith18]

He said immediately, angrily,

"I am NOT going on pills, I don't think there is such a thing as a 'get happy' pill"...........

I sense stubborness is stong in this one.

Try not. Do or do not, there is no try.

[Wooglint]

Jump his bones. What do you have to lose?

[smith18]

I'm with Woog - put some Horny Goat Weed in his cereal.

[ernest88]

Jump his bones. What do you have to lose?

So is the lower region permanently off limits or what?

I'm with Woog and Kerry..except I say leave out the Horney Goat weed..I say just after the kids are asleep grab his lower region..I figure this move can't screw him up any more than he already is..Hopefully it will throw such a shock in him that he has to go into IC for it..

Let us know if he curls up in a corner or not..

and don't be shocked or expect anything no matter what happens.

[BobbiJo]

OK, I will consider it, what do I have to lose? It is a different approach than talking, so I guess it falls under 'do something different'....and he did laugh when I was flirting with him last night.

As you said, what is the worst that happens?
He moves out?
He sleeps on the couch?
He says he is confused?
He says he wants a D?

Oh yeah, he has already done all those things...

Operation "Grab the package" will commence at 2200 hours...

[Kalni]

LOL!!! I hope the operation is successful!
K

[Virtually_Handsome]

Covering eyes! I know how I'd react!

[ernest88]

Operation "Grab the package" will commence at 2200 hours...

BBJ..I don't want details but would like to know if he reacts either positively or negatively..

good luck...

[BobbiJo]

I know what they say about no expectations, but....

If I were betting, my prediction is--

He will move away/roll over(if on couch)/grab my hand and squeeze it--

(in other words, stop me from fondling)

Then I think he will do that sad, wistful sigh thing and say he just can't do it and he doesn't know why not.....

And at THAT point I would take the opportunity to point out the fact that he needs help from someone, somewhere, like IC. Or maybe point out how I am feeling about these people dying and life being too short to live being afraid....

HOPEFULLY I am wrong and it will lead to something I cannot report back to you...