I feel the same way. 21 years of my life were spent with this man. I changed during the relationship just like anyone would, however I became someone over the last couple of years that even I wouldn't like. Coping with the Affair was sooo difficult and I was losing who I was. I feel myself becoming each day more and more like the kat I used to actually like, that had the world wide open with possiblities!

Hugs hon, you and I are going to make it!

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory