I am so proud of you for taking action.....I was just posting on my thread about how the indecision of stay/go in a marriage is toxic to the person/people involved. I am glad you are taking a step towards not being 'stuck' anymore.
Proud proud proud! I shall break out the fuzzy socks in your honor....
[quote=Virtually_Handsome]You'll have to keep the heat on. Fortunately you live in a warm climate!
Sorry Jeff, had too....and its a .... dry heat!!
Jeff I love the letter, and I think it has been a long time coming. I pray that things go well, and regardless of the outcome you have peace.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
No expectations, except I expect some sort of reaction, even if it's not visible. I do expect this will get her thinking a little bit...what is the question lol.
But good for you for doing this!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I would give it to her Thursday evening or Friday morning before you head out. I don't think it would be good to give it to her tonight when she has to work tomorrow. JMO.
(((((Jeff)))))
Last edited by GoingForward; 11/19/0807:33 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Tonight, even though she works tomorrow, or tomorrow evening? I'm not sure getting her mad is the best place to start!
First off, you're assuming she is going to be mad or upset!
Second off, do you think she cares if you work the next day when she reems you for something?
Third off, if she does work the next day it could very well work to your advantage! She won't have all day to sit home and stew on it and lock you out of the house!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.