Here is what you do from now on. On your way home from work is there a park or something close to your house you can stop at. If there is go there when you know your W will be at the house. Get out and take a 10 to 15 minute walk. Smell the fresh air, take deep breaths and let the pressures of work out with each breath. Then proceed home with a clear head and a renewed PMA.
Make sure its close to home so you don't end up back in traffic but far enough away that your W does not know your there. Also if you don't expect her to be there and she is you can go back, decompress then face her.
Try it, it will help.
Thanks Tim. There is a park at the end of my street that I pass every time I drive home. It is going to become my personal sanctuary to find my inner peace.
Me/W 39/37 T/M 9/6 S 4, D 2 Bomb 7/17/08 OM confirmed 7/23/08 D Filed 7/25/08 D served 9/17/08