Maybe she was stuck but I think her new awareness wnt let her get stuck again? What do you think?
I used to be stuck too and I am "unstcuk" now and I now know that I will never be so 'ignorant' if you will to the importance of sex to a M.
You too are aware so if this experiment goes too long you will know to say Hey this isnt working .. lets try this instead.
I have found that when my hubby eases up on the pressure my drive does come ..... lets say it goes 3 days ? I then devour him cause he allowed "it" ( whatever the hell it is ) to well up in me and I must have him.
It also feels good that he trusted me to not let him starve... and the smile on his face is priceless ....
If your Wife is feeling pressure then she cannot feel like she is fully allowed to be her own sexual self.... My H sees now that hey we may go a few days .. but when we ML it is *(&&^%%& good. I have then said to him " see isnt that nice?"
I guess what I am trying to say is would you ever be willing to trade x amount of days and then she initiates and it is 100% delicious, ( I ramble too! OOPS~ )
Love ya ~B
You can let go of the control. I know you can , surrender to this. Just for awhile. You may be pleasantly surprised. Love, ~Ava
