What can I say, I am a bit of a 'planner', which is why limbo sucks so much. H hasn't even given a definitive answer if he will go to my christmas party in 3 weeks....
No I won't try to molest him. Last night I actually thought "what the hell" and I said,
"So is the lower region permanently off limits or what?" (the kids were in the room I had to be creative)
H says, "Why?" (I guess that is better than--YES it is off limits!?)
I say, "Because I WANT it...." in a flirty voice
H laughed.
Not the fetal position, but not "come hither", either....