Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Oh, it is a deal breaker. That's why I've said that we're probably arguing about nothing (not that I don't like a good arguement). She said last night that she didn't want to move, but she "had no choice" and would move either when her Temp assignment is over or when the school year is over.

If she balks at moving after I've already moved, then I'll have my answer and I can move on.

So either way I have my answer. She moves with us which tells me she's at least willing to try or she balks at moving which tells me she's either waiting on OM or she's ready to move on.