You're more worked up about it than I am Pup.

Maybe I'm becoming detached enough (yeah right) that I really don't care at this point. If she doesn't want to do what's needed, then ok, leave.

I think my W is a combo WAW, EA/PA wife. And I see a difference in the way they should be handled. It feels like to me, that she's no longer an EA/PA wife, but is still in WA mode which I think if I've learned correctly, needs TIME more than anything.

Or am I just all wet?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.