Karen,
Here's a thought on the neclace/whistle. Tell your DD that sometimes things are really special, and you only wear them on special occasions. Tell her that you will put it up for her for safe keeping. When she goes to vist daddy you'll let her wear it there to let them know how much she likes it. Tell her to be sure to blow it a lot to let them know how special it is! \:\/

Hugs, Yoyo



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