Hi Everyone, Thanks for responding. Your responses always lift me up. I don't intend on "accusing" him of anything without facts. I haven't even mentioned anything to him.
Saffie asked if he ever talks about the future. Yes, he does in fleeting moments. He has said on several times he wants us to get a vacation home on the lake. He talks about buying me a new vehicle. Sunday afternoon he was over and I was talking about hiring someone to take the carpet up out of my room. He said no, don't do that we will do it after hunting season is over.
I did find out some info last night. The OW's exH called last night. I guess in a way we have become friends. He called to tell me that the OW is taking him back to court on Monday. She is trying to get him to help pay for utilities for the house that they are trying to sell. His objection to that is that he wanted to move in their house after she moved out and bought another house. He has been trying to buy her out but she won't accept his offer. He at least wanted to live in it until it sold, but she refuses to let him have possession of the house. She still has possession of the house, so he looks at it this way, she can pay the utilities. He said his L agreed with him.
The exH also told me that the OW's dad is in the hospital with some serious heart blockage. This happened last week while H was on his hunting trip. So I'm wondering if she is laying a sympathy card on my H.
The OW also seems to be tattling on DD20 who works part-time for H when she doesn't have a class. When DD doesn't have any work to do she gets on Facebook. Apparently OW has told H that the computer could get a virus because of FB and tells H everytime DD gets on it when he's not there. The exH's and OW's son was telling him about it. My H doesn't know much about computers so I'm sure OW is able to convince him that DD will get a virus on the computer. I called DD last night and told her to watch her back.
Hope3343, thanks so much for stopping by. Can you give me a summary to the plans you talked about?
Hugs, Yoyo
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