Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Pup. I'm not sure I agree with you calling bullchit on it or not. I guess I was trying to convey that I am moving with or without her. She can say I have nothing to worry about all she likes, but she's just fooling herself if she says that.

I've tried that "you can never have contact with him again" route and she just saw that as me controlling her. She isn't as smart as the people on this board that know that NC is the only way we'll ever have a chance. So I guess I was just trying to get her to see that us moving was something I had to do and if she doesn't want to play along, so be it. I thought it would be better if she saw us moving as something that I had to do, not something that I was ordering her to do.

It's probably a moot point anyway. Last night she said she'd move although she didn't want to. The timing is just the question. And if she stays after S16 and I go to complete her temp assignment and then balks at coming to join us, so be it. If we decide that they stay until S16 finishes the school year and then she balks at moving, S16 will move with me and then she can do what she wants with her life.

In a way I think if she stays, either with or without S16 staying, it will be a good thing. She can live by herself during the week and see how it is and I would come home on the weekends. If she decides she likes it alone, then at least the decision is made and I can get on with life.

I'll take your thoughts into consideration.