Define "fair." Here in Florida, my wife can have an affair, lie to me, our children and her parents about it, and if I file for divorce, her adultery can not only NOT be used as grounds for the divorce, but -- because we were considered to be in a "long-term marriage" (22 years) -- I would then have to give HER a rather large percentage of my earnings PERMANENTLY -- as long as I continued to work.
That would be in addition to child support, which is a basic formula, and which I would have NO problem paying, and then some.
Permanent alimony, to someone who cheated on you. What a country.
And I could FORGET about custody -- the man almost always loses that one, unless you can prove abuse or drug addiction or something.
Puppy
That is heartbreaking and just plain wrong!
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
