Oh Ali, I know, I just can't think about it at the moment but I will do. It has been on my mind for a while and as I said, before all this, I was going to offer. I just want to have some fun for a while and not deal with this sh*t.
I suppose I have to formulate a new plan of action based on his non-response. Although if someone won't talk to you, answer your texts/ emails, pick up the phone what do you do? Do I make another move? Do I wait for him to respond? He'll have to eventually if he wants to move forward with the house and I don't think I could have been any 'safer'/ nicer in my email to him. My goal is friendship so I have to work out how to get there.
Just one thing, when I saw him and we talked about finances the TV licence came up and I said, I should really be paying that as you don't have use of it and he poo pooed me and said no it was joint and changed the subject. When we split our finances I assumed I'd be paying half the car but he wrote back and highlighted it himself and said I shouldn't be paying anything towards the car as I had no use of it. I don't know what I should do really, I just wish he would communicate with me so we could discuss this.
I was thinking of you too earlier ITH, nice to 'see' you and I hope you are ok.
