Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Break, Pup.

I understand what you guys are saying. And that's part of the reason I don't want to get into the poor job performance thing with her. She can figure it out. I suspect that's why she was quiet last night. Thinking of the ramifications of the A.

The part about OM moving back? I will frame it as something I must do, not WE must do. I'll state it that I have to move because if he moves back and they would work together I'd NEVER feel safe and that would make me smother her and I KNOW she doesn't want that. So I'll just say I have to do this move for ME, because I don't want to be the kind of person I WOULD be if we stayed here and OM came back. I'll tell her I KNOW we could have a great marriage if we could discuss the things in the marriage that were contributing factors to her A, but without her help in identifying those things, how can we move forward like we both seem to want to?

I do want to just say that maybe I've been painting a bad picture of the evening. It wasn't bad. It obviously wasn't as light hearted and filled with laughs as the previous month or so has been. But W's old boss called and she sat there laughing on the phone with him and she did give me a warm goodnight and was fine this morning.

No IM's so far today though. Might have to drop her one and see how her day is going before she goes to training for the afternoon for her temp assignment.