Hey GFI... I was curious, so, have you been to C? Are you going to C? What 180s can you show your W about being more open? (like can you open up to her about how you feel about more neutral things, like work, or the house, or H, but not about you and her obviously). If you arent going to C, but you do start and she finds out about it.. if I were her, I would be VERY intrigued/encouraged by that development.
Just a thought! Thanks for your FB, I am super tired but will get back to you!
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread