Read TryingMyBest/DoingMyBest's old threads. His wife also had an enabling GF, that was transferring messages between the adulterous couple and much more.
Many, perhaps even MOST, affairs have one or more major enablers in the picture somewhere.
Puppy
Oh, I know Pup. W's EGF is a huge block in us going further in our relationship I'm pretty sure. EGF is 25, been married and divorced twice, both marriages lasting 1 year. I've seen TM's between them where EGF calls me "animal" and encourages W to do what makes her happy, the hell with everyone else. So my task has been to show W WE can be happy if she'd just let go of the A and talk to me about the issues that led to the A, but so far, I've only been successful showing W that I'm not such an "animal" after all.
I'm hoping the rest will come.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
