Originally Posted By: whatdidido
Yep, you think she remembers you said this, etc. I don't think she does. When you move and are living elsewhere, this will eventually be talked about. Better to get it out on the table now before you move so she knows the reason clear as day.


Ok WDID, I like how you keep me honest about assumptions. Like I said to Pup, the part about OM moving back will come up. Just need the timing to be correct.

I just sent my boss an email asking about the timing, etc as it will have an impact on S16 moving mid year or at the end of the year. Last night W tried to tell S16 it was best if they waited until the end of the year and he wasn't bitin'. He said, "you didn't worry about that when we moved over here. It was in between 1st and 2nd quarter. Moving at the end of the first semester wouldn't be a big deal". And W just looked at him.

I think she's nervous about moving because she knows that some people in the home office know of the sitch. My boss and two very close friends were the only one's that I told, but people figure stuff out when they ask how you're doing and you tell them you're having marital problems. She thinks that EGF is the only one that knows at the Refinery, but I would bet quite a bit that words got around. POS's like OM don't keep their mouths shut when they're "scoring" with a good looking woman.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.