Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Pup. I'm sure it will come up in conversation. W was pretty stunned last night when I told her my boss was not pleased with my performance.

I've been one of the highest rated performers in my positions the last 6-8 years, so this was a stunner. I know I deserve it, but WOW, I didn't think it was that bad. But I can see his side of it. Plus I've told him I thought it would be good to get US back to our hometown and REAL friends and family.

One added bonus of the move is, EGF will be out of the picture.

I was reading on another thread a week or so ago that there was an EGF who was filling the W's head with all sorts of "he'll never change" and "you're a fool if you try with him" kinds of talks. I see W's EGF doing that. Could be why when we're away or on the weekends W is different. Doesn't have EGF filling her up with the EGF b.s.

I just need to be careful how I frame this. I'm not sure if I'll connect the poor performance to the Affair, she'll surely be able to figure that out on her own, but if she says anything about not wanting to move, I'll definitely restate my comments about OM moving back here and that I can't live here with him in the area. Whether she moves with us is up to her, but I CAN'T not move.