Ah guys, I knew when I re-read what I'd wrote that someone would question me.
Two reasons her affair is the reason for us having to move.
First, OMW told me a while ago that OM thought he might be moving back to work at the Refinery W works at, probably a year or so from now. There is NO WAY IN H3LL I COULD EVER STAY HERE WITH HER AND HIM WORKING TOGETHER AGAIN. Everytime she went anywhere without me, I'd be a wreck and in turn would drive her crazy with my constantly checking up on her.
Second, My boss is not happy with my performance. I have a job with quite a bit of responsibility and prior to my finding out about her affair, everything was fine job wise. But the last year and a half, my performance has slipped. I see it, my boss see's it. He's very understanding of the sitch, but really needs someone on their A game in my position. And with the sitch, as everyone here probably knows, I just can't concentrate and hence my performance has slipped. He wants to get me back to the home office where I'm more comfortable and thinks I'll be able to get my performance back to the high level both myself and my company expects of me.
does that make sense?
Yes, it does, and I do think you should tell her this. She needs to understand the consequences of her actions, and the stakes at play here.
