She knows the move is because my boss isn't happy with my performance. I told her that last night. I didn't connect the dots for her, but how could she not see?
Second, Back in July when the subject of us moving back first came up I told her plainly, "If our marriage makes it, we HAVE to move because there is no way I would be able to live here if OM came back to work at the Refinery like OMW says he might". W said, "I don't know anything about that". I replied "I'm sorry, but I just don't trust that you don't know anything about that. Given what's gone on, try to see it from my point of view, that to me this could just be another step in your plan to 'act like' you're trying for the kids, OM comes back in a year or so and you file for D saying 'see kids, I tried but it just didn't work, but see how happy OM makes me'" and she just looked at me and said again "I don't know anything about that".
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.