Well, I spoke to soon. Straight after previous post, my solicitor rang. Seems I'm totally fooked. P15535 me right of as my W, through her bad choices has fooked my life up, fooked my kids lives up and will come out of this smelling of roses.

Sols says I would not likely do better in court and threw a few suggestions in there for me to go for, with her and at mediation. The thing is, they are me backing down more and giving her more money, but in doing so I'm unlikely to be able to afford a place for me and the boys and whatever I can afford, will likely not be seen as fit to have the boys over as much as I would like. I'm so annoyed now, this woman who I gave everything to and gave my life to, had two beautiful kids with can do this to us all and seems tothink it's funny.

Really stumped for what to do next but I need to get my head together as got the boys later today and also may see her and she will ask if I've seen my solicitor.