Hi, Sophie,
I can't give you any advice on legal stuff, as I haven't been through that (keeping my fingers crossed that I never will), but I just wanted to tell you I'm reading along and hoping for the best for you.

I do understand your puzzlement about H coming up with mystery money, though...my H has SOMEHOW come up with about $15,000.00 out of thin air, even though we are living more or less paycheck to paycheck and he has quite a history of complaining about our finances (we still live in the same house and have more or less joint finances). I have speculated a bit on where this money might possibly have come from, but I have not said one word to him about it, and I'm not even sure he knows that I'm aware of it (did you follow that?). I am just leaving it up to God, while trying to do what I can to look after myself financially (difficult as it is becoming), regardless of what he might do.

So...I hope you don't feel hijacked, but these MLCers are just a big mystery sometimes, and the SANE LBS's are just left scratching our heads, wondering what's going on in the MLCers' tiny minds! ;\)

Peace,
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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