light (albeit dim) at the end of the tunnel

[badcompany]

alright here's the scoop, and I need some advice.....


wife got back from her week long vacation. I got a great big hug, then we laid in bed for an hour, holding hands and talking about her trip.

nothing ended up happening between her and the other guy out there; I know this because she wouldn't have held my hand, asked me to call off of work tonight, and she would have said "we need to talk..."

problem is, she isn't intimate with me other than holding hands. I feel like she told me she wanted to work things out just to have someone keep her company. She has told me she has trouble being attracted to me because she was intimate with someone else. We've had sex twice since we started talking again, and those were the only two times there was kissing between us.

I don't NEED to get laid. that's not the point. I just want to know what is up, and how to approach her. Obviously I should tell her how I feel and ask what we can BOTH do to fix this. any other ideas?