Hi Julia, I will also chime in on good job on having fun and keeping a PMA!! That's what it's all about.

Don't mean to ruine your good PMA .... but I always viewed my H's ow as just the vehicle he used to get away. Did Jody mention to you that as long as you are married your H can only committ so much to his new R. She told me that, as well as, staying M, might in a away make him feel safe. Strange way of looking at it, I know. Be the better person & keep detaching. \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)