I am truly sorry that your H lost a friend. It is good that you let him spend time with his friends to night. You do not want to press this one.
Good for you. Stick to your guns on this one. You need to talk in person. He has given you an opportunity to pick your ground. Chose a time and place that both of you can relax in. Do not put yourself in position that you will have to rush this conversation.
You will do well!
My W asked me to meet her for dinner tomorrow night. She is suppose to spend part of this weekend with me at our home. I hope she does not change her mind. I made a DVD with the picture we took at the Gala last week. It is very romantic. I hope it does not push her away. If the bath with rose peddles and bubble did not this DVD should not.
