As predicted, OW gave D8 a necklace/whistle for her birthday. She came home wearing it around her neck. I asked D8 not to wear it in my house while I'm still married to her dad. I suggested she bring it to her dad's house and she could wear it there whenever she wanted and blow the whistle a lot too for Daddy and OW. I think the OW is so fricking nasty. I'm sure she realized that would be horrible for me to look at, so I have to think she was purposely setting up to use my daughter to hurt me. You'd think she would feel she had already done enough. Do you think I should have D8 take it to her dad's or just let her have it here and have it go missing in the near future??? Karen