Yesterday, I took somemore of my H's stuff (more clutter not stuff he would need) to his house (I was going that way for work anyway). He was at work & I left it by his garage.
Today he emailed me back stating: Thanks for dropping stuff off. I will help with this you don't have to keeping bringing stuff out unless you want to. I have to get ready this week to got to Malasia for a month in Jan but I will get together with you soon too.
I emailed back stating:Nice to hear from you! You are welcome. I was in the area, hope it didn't get too wet (it was only supposed to be flurries). oops. I will be in your area this weekend - I was going to drop off some of your clothes & misc. Let me know if that is ok or not? I know you said you would help - I'm still holding you to that .... by the way ... So are you going to Malasia? WEll, hope all is going great for you! L8ter back at ya
Is he finally opening up?? Hhmmm. He never initaites emails & if, if he replies only a sentance. Does not really tell me what he's doing either. Very strange that at work when I emailed him back it never crossed my mind to email anything about us meeting. Guess, I just don't expect us to meet up & have 0 expectations of it.
Ofcourse, I want to bring him his stuff, so he can deal with the life & the things he left behind. This weekend was going to be my last of delivering things (still would be atleast 50% of his stuff here). And then not contact him until after the holidays. (Last year I was a true basket case during the holidays). I will not repeat that this year.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)