Well update for self - self.

Yesterday, I took somemore of my H's stuff (more clutter not stuff he would need) to his house (I was going that way for work anyway). He was at work & I left it by his garage.

Today he emailed me back stating: Thanks for dropping stuff off. I will help with this you don't have to keeping bringing stuff out unless you want to. I have to get ready this week to got to Malasia for a month in Jan but I will get together with you soon too.


I emailed back stating:Nice to hear from you! You are welcome. I was in the area, hope it didn't get too wet (it was only supposed to be flurries). oops. I will be in your area this weekend - I was going to drop off some of your clothes & misc. Let me know if that is ok or not? I know you said you would help - I'm still holding you to that .... by the way ... \:\) So are you going to Malasia? WEll, hope all is going great for you! L8ter back at ya ;\)

Is he finally opening up?? Hhmmm. He never initaites emails & if, if he replies only a sentance. Does not really tell me what he's doing either. Very strange that at work when I emailed him back it never crossed my mind to email anything about us meeting. Guess, I just don't expect us to meet up & have 0 expectations of it.

Ofcourse, I want to bring him his stuff, so he can deal with the life & the things he left behind. This weekend was going to be my last of delivering things (still would be atleast 50% of his stuff here). And then not contact him until after the holidays. (Last year I was a true basket case during the holidays). I will not repeat that this year.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)