BBJ, don't worry about posting to me you have enough things on your plate....yes I will need to concentrate on me a little more.

Mike, D7 actually did tell me that she would be mean to OM if it meant trouble for W and OM. I told her to be nice and respectful like you would be any other adult.

K, W did call me today with D7 and actually invited me to lunch to discuss....I politely declined. She did call back to suggest that we stay away from e-mails that could be misinterpreted. My boss was in the car at the time so I may have seemed a little cold and quick to end the phone call.

So where does trhat leave John Boy? I have to slowly begin to get my life back. This week I am busy with my boss...next week I will begin by putting out some feelers that I am now available to explore BF option at least for coffee etc.... I have to start somewhere.