JOJO, Hang in there. It sounds to me like you are doing things right. Your making yourself busy when he calls and your not jumping at any bone he may throw.
My H would call me when he first left me about once every couple weeks and then disapeer again. When he would call he would sound very broken. I did all I could to be caring and loving with out smothering or being pushy. Sometimes he would be in an drunken outrage and call or come over pissed off and down right rude. I didnt even recognize him it was like he was possesed.
It has been a year and a half since those days. It was torture. I felt my world crumble and my own self wither away. I cant even beleive that I am here having this chance with my H to peice. It is a pure blessing. I always felt we were meant to be and he is my One and only. I guess time will tell.
I want you to smile and know that your doing well. No matter what craziness we are put through, we have to be strong and stick to the DB guidelines. I often would go back and look at the basics or reread ch.'s from DRemedy to help guide me. Your on the right track just be patient.
