We have had a decent week so far. This weekend was kindof lame but we did go bowling twice for our leagues.
On the way home sat. night we kindof had a spat and disagreed about a political topic dealing with tenure. We came to a stale mate and gave each other the silent treatment until we got home. He then asked if I wanted him to go home to his apartment and I said, No and that we can agree to disagree. He said cool. The subject was dropped and we had a decent night after that.
Yesterday, I had art night and my H went to open-mic-night as usual - even though his bass player is on vacation and they wernt playing. I expected him to go. But I didnt expect him to text me and want to come over again. But he did. I was excited and we had a nice night.
I guess I am surprised to see that he wants to come over on mondays recently. That used to be our seperate night apart for the first few months. I would go watch him play and leave him at the bar to have fun when they finished. The last two mondays he has come here. Baby steps.
Well, I am reaching some of my goals. I have been working on them for a while and just recently I am feeling the pay offs. It seems like a fluke. I havent changed a thing. But recently my H has turned more caring. I just hope it is patience paying off instead of just a momentary rise in this rollercoaster I have been on.
My H is supposed to have a kiawans meeting tonight and then come over later around 8 or 9. I hope he follows through.
