Hi Yoyo, I have not posted on your stich but I have followed it in the past. From what everything I have read you have handled yourself with dignity, style and always kept your head up. Your children have been your first priority and you should be proud of what you accomplished. Your H might have taken a backslide. It happens. But sometimes it confirms that he no longer wants the A with OW. I know some people on this board have taken a strong stand at some point and used Plan A/Plan B from Surviving an Affair by Heartley. If you are willing to wait then you are following the true DB process but if you are a point that you want H to commit to M again look at this book. It gives you a good plans to follow. Look at T2L stich. She has just finished Plan A and has gone into Plan B and hope for success. I wish you the best. We are all here for a reason. Good luck
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09