Yoyo,

Don't mention the 3 hours. It only makes it worse if you say something. Worse comes to worst, she got three hours out of 2 weeks. And you had him the rest of the time. Eventually she will see what little she has. Either she will push hard and it will anger him, or she will give up and move on. Either way, you are winning. As for Thanksgiving, as I recall, last year didn't make him want to come home, so maybe something different will be alright. Who knows?