No, not really. I have been in my full-time job for 8 years but I have no vacation time left and no sick time so I won't get paid if I'm off. The 2nd job is only a few weeks old so I can't really ask for a Saturday or Sunday off yet. Crazy days.
I'm really glad I didn't have to go to court too. My L was dying for him to argue about the child support so she could get the broom on the stand and rip her a new one in court. The broom has been involved in at least 3 other D cases my L has handled. She is a major homewrecker......oh, but she "loves him". Yeah, whatever.
I genuinely do hope that Gabe finds happiness one day, but it's going to remain elusive as long as he is relying on someone else for it. I'm not responsible for his crap anymore so I'm not going to be concerned for him.
My mom told me that he talked all the way to the doctor and back telling her what he's been doing, where he's been applying for jobs, that he almost moved back to CA but decided he couldn't be that far away from Marc, etc.. She said it was a little strange, she expected him to be extra quiet and a little awkward. Then again, he was always able to talk to my mom about anything. I guess it's good that he still feels comfortable enough with her to do that. His mom is on the other end of the country and isn't really in a good mental state either.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!