Sweetie, I've never posted to you before, I usually just lurk these days, but I've been following your thread the last few days and I just wanted you to know how much I am feeling for you right now. I just cannot imagine how you are feeling/what you are thinking, etc.

I think that everyone is right to just "be still." I like that. Don't make any decisions; don't have any contact w/ him and just take it day by day. Do what you need to do for you and your kids. He is going to have to take care of himself now. He created the mess he is now in and it is not up to you to help him clean it up in any way, shape or form.

Hang in there, girl. When I had my tough times, I just kept reminding me that God always has a Plan. Even though we don't know what that Plan is at times, He knows what He is doing. Always.

Hugs, girl!

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 11/18/08 11:02 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10