Things are settling down...not sure that's good!

[SingleDad]

Amy M - believe me there are lots of rollercoaster rides to come. I am amazed how quickly you are adjusting to your new reality.

I fought to save my marriage... as much as I learned about DBing, I couldn't help going back to clinginess, anger, relationship talk, etc. Whenever I go back to DBing and STBXW is comfortable I won't be "acting up" she is more likely to call to discuss daughter issues.

All went to hell when I learned last week that W is sleeping with her boyfriend, while my daughter is in the next room - told me this BF is more serious than I thought and going on a long time - affair likely before the D started. (DB was out the window - to say the least). But I am better now - back to GALing.

You are doing great in keeping friendly (is he having second thoughts ?) Keeep it up.