Just talked to H, he is headed to our friend Roy's the one who was in the hospital a month or so ago. His garage burned that H and he built about 30 years ago. It had all of his Roy's dad's tools in it and the washer and dryer. The house he lives in is not nice or anything floors falling in and stuff, the garage wasn't much better if any. SIL that told about H and OW to my coworker is Roy's sister she called H to tell him Roy is upset. So H is headed out there to see him. I told him if he needed me to call me. I would really like to see SIL, but I guess at this time I wouldn't want to say anything since I am sure she will act upset too, since all of her Dad's tools were in there. Don't figure they have any insurance. The Dad died about 7 years ago. At some point in time I will confront her, her I don't mind getting pissed at.
But the good news in all that....H got his union stuff turned in. Didn't say anything about me being the beneficiary. So that is a good sign I guess. I would have told him, I would have wanted to be the beneficiary anyway otherwise if D is the beneficiary all the money would go to his Ex-wife. Which he knows that, just like D's extra Financial Aid going to her. I would at least be able to distribute in smaller amounts to D.
That did make me feel better that he called to tell me where he was going to be, and that the union stuff was filled out fine. I told him Sorry about the garage, and that you don't need anything else to deal with right now.
