Corey, give yourself a break, hon. Please. IMHO, you know way too much about what is going on right now with H and the Troll, and that's because his calls/texts are being responded to. I know it's hard not to, but please. Do this for your own sanity and well-being.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Sweetie, I've never posted to you before, I usually just lurk these days, but I've been following your thread the last few days and I just wanted you to know how much I am feeling for you right now. I just cannot imagine how you are feeling/what you are thinking, etc.
I think that everyone is right to just "be still." I like that. Don't make any decisions; don't have any contact w/ him and just take it day by day. Do what you need to do for you and your kids. He is going to have to take care of himself now. He created the mess he is now in and it is not up to you to help him clean it up in any way, shape or form.
Hang in there, girl. When I had my tough times, I just kept reminding me that God always has a Plan. Even though we don't know what that Plan is at times, He knows what He is doing. Always.
Hugs, girl!
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Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Hey, Corey, just checking in and sorry to see what's going on. ((((Corey))))) I agree with everyone else, try to distance yourself as much as possible anyway. Yeah, and maybe suggesting he be elsewhere when you're in Vegas is a good idea too. I can't imagine how you would enjoy that right now. You know my throughts and prayers are with you!!! Karen
(((GF, Dar, Kat, Karen, Jeff, RHW, H4H & Lost))) Thank you all SO very much.
I actually got H to come down and sign the settlement agreement and get it notarized so come tomorrow I can get that all filed and have all of my ducks in a row.
I know what you are all saying and I know its true. I can't fix this for him. He has created this huge mess, now HE will have to fix it or not. Its not up to me. I will just need to learn to keep my distance in the coming days.
Asking him not to come to Vegas isn't happening. He is hellbent that he is going to watch DS play ball. Its going to be fine. I will just deal with it. There are plenty of things for me and the kids to go and do and see. We will have the games to go to and all sorts of other stuff, so it'll be fine. I'm just going to stop stressing about it and give it to God.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I watched the video you posted to H4H, it was great. My H has many parasites. I really liked it though.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
