Didi, Thanks for responding. I'll give you a short summary of my sitch.
Oct. 06 H says he wants out, he's not happy, says there is no one else. I was blindsided. We had not had any problems.
Dec. 06 Find out he is having affair with his secretary.
Through the months he continues to ride the fence.
June 07 he files for D not contact until Sept. 07
July 07 OW's D final
Sept. 07 we start seeing each other again. He would say he wanted to reconcile then get wishy washy again.
June 08 he dismisses D.
OW still works for him, thus that's what makes me so uncofortable. He said he won't fire her, he's afraid of lawsuit. As you can see, very messed up situation.
H and I see each other 3-4 times a week.
Well, that wasn't too short, but it has been going on for two years!
Last edited by Yoyowife; 11/18/0809:23 PM.
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