Well, the DB reservation that is. \:\)

My best guess is I have about 3 weeks before my W will have her D. It will have taken about 2 weeks longer than the 60 days she wanted, but based on her current disposition, it will have been worth the wait.

Days before the court date, I have pretty much decided to ask her to dinner and will tell her the truth about how I feel. I cannot allow this R of 17 years to be undone while I sit here in DB limbo, coolly detached and acting "as-if". I will not be needy, I will not be clingy, but I will be honest.

What do I have to lose?


H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation