Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

That's an excellent observation you just made.:)

Yeah, but that's the easy part. The whole time I've always tried to do as recommended, investigate and determine what the oher person offers to your spouse that you didn't. Unfortunately there's only 2 things I can come up with and one of which is verifiable: he 'parties' with her all night (verifable) and provides a better sex life.

Both of which I coudn't do all the time, I have a career and responsibility, I need to be well rested and lastly and most importantnly, I am not in the position to show change in those areas.

Otherwise, there is absolutely NOTHING I or anyone else can determine that draws her to him.

So, that fuels my frustration. We have a great talk and seem like we're going somewhere and then she's back getting those two things from him. And those 2 things are kind of hard to find a compromise for and deal with and let roll off.