WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice II

[brantacan]

LonelyD,

Regarding your question about the random texts; that's one I struggle with as well.

I think you'll get valid arguments for and against, but personally, I believe there has to be some level of interaction, even if it is just a text now and then. I'm not talking about any type of chasing, badgering, or pleading (as you're well aware), but rather creative ways to maintain a friendly connection. While absence may make the heart grow fonder, I think too much distance can close the door. From my perspective, complete darkness would only be employed if I was in that place where I was constantly backsliding and lacked personal strength and confidence. If you're in a good place mentally I see no problem with an occasional friendly text. I'll be curious to hear what others have to say.