{{{t2l}}}} glad you checked in or we would have to track you down!! lol... Did H contact the mediators and he pissed them off or they just had a change of heart?
I am trying to be productive today. I am working at home but I think I have been in a funk. I am worried that after the new year that H will ask for D. (you know be a nice guy and not ask me before the holidays), But I have to stop worrying about what has not happened yet. Today, I am going through paperwork, organizing and trying to be productive. I know this mood will pass but I am still doing well detaching.
I think I got a little depressed because when I met with C yesterday, he suggested getting a private investigator so if H asks for D I will be prepared for a fault divorce. Then he gave me the name of one! Any thoughts on this? It makes me feel bad a that christian "pro-marriage counselor" is trying to lead me down the D path. I did not like that. But then again maybe I am the stupid one that I don't get blindsided if H serves me and I am not prepared especially being in Tx where there is no waiting period and 50/50 community property so I would have a lot to lose. any thoughts??? sorry to steal the stich!
TxMom, I am glad you reminded me. I have one session left with DB coach. Would be a good time to call I would think. You are right, I need to plan some things for the holiday when I am back in CT or I will just collapse. I am planning on going into NYC with some friends to go see the tree and go to Rockfeller center which will be nice. I will also go to the casino with my Mom and sister.
wish you all can come here for Thanksgiving -- I make a great turkey!
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
