It's official.......what now?

[mishka422]

Yup, you're both right! Thank you! I hear ya loud and clear!

My ridiculous nature to "take care" of everyone regardless of how bad they have hurt me. I guess my instinct to make sure he wasn't blindsided by the mail took over. Let him be blindsided! I sure was!

I picked up the final decree from my L on my way to pick up my mom from dialysis. I immediately pulled it out of the envelope and it kicked me in the stomach to see the judges signature on it and the court clerk's official stamps on it. Very icky stuff! I wouldn't ever wish this on my worst enemy, let alone any of my friends here. Fight with all you have, but when you run out of strength, try to find ways to soften the blows for yourselves. They all feel like they come from prize fighters.