Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Break.

This is new territory for me (us). We've always been able to talk about these types of things before. In fact, prior to the A, if something like this would have happened, I'd have been on the phone already telling her about it.

I like your idea about while we're driving this weekend.

I guess limbo land will end soon. Either she's ok or excited (hopefully) about the move or she'll be pissed and then I'll know my answer of where we stand and I can get on with my life.

There'll be lots of details to work out. I can imagine W wanting to stay through the end of her Temp assignment. If it happens, it could be good in that we (S16 and I) could move at the end of the semister (mid Jan) and W could follow Feb/Mar when her assignment is over.

I think I'll talk to her this weekend and see where she is. I don't want to wreck the weekend, but with a boss "suggesting" you take a position, it's kind of obvious it would be best for my career and I KNOW it would be best for us (including W if she goes). If not, time to move to the next chapter of my life.

Ok, one more question. Should I talk to her before the weekend so it's had time to sink in and if she's not excited, we could still enjoy the weekend?