I've gone from the thinking "he knows if he cheats again, I won't stay" to completely knowing he won't cheat again.
How did I get there? I don't know. I just know it in my heart finally.
I also think it has a lot to do w/ what Peaceful said about meeting your H's needs & he will return in kind.
Have a great week!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10