My crazy mess....what version is this now???!!!

[dday101798]

Thanks D-Day!!!

Where r u at in IL?? I agree I should know something when we talk face to face.

I am trying to figure out how to bring all of this up without being to over the top...if that makes sense? i don't want the "old me" coming out...I have to figure out a way to do this with tact. Any good ideas???

thanks for the input!!!

((DDAY))

christa

Near west subs of Chicago.

I'm not even going to try and conjour up advice as you seem to be way ahead of where my sitch is at, although just a week ago we seemed to be doing great, but that was only because W's father was back in his house (where she "stays") and now that he's left again, everything fell apart.

I can say that the last few times we saw each other even after being spread to 3 times over a 2 1/2 month period?, each time there was sincerity. Each time she said she wants to do something to try and fix this, I knew she meant it. I'm personally just trying to come up with a system to maintain that notion after she leaves and returns to him, which is where I've been blowing it, royally. The face to face talk, to me, that's the easy part, you'll know when the time is right and he's ready to talk.