Oh yeah sorry I didn't respond All, personally I would just wait to see what he gets or what he does. I wouldn't want present that needed to have a hint dropped about. It just would feel right. I would want a gift from my significant others heart and creativity and not because I hinted. But that's just my humble opinion.

Just have no expectations and either way you will be ok.

Again, focus on yourself as it sounds as if he has some stuff to work through before he can be all that you need.

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca